The day I found out I was pregnant
was such a joyous time in my life. After losing two babies to preterm
labor and having an incompetent cervix,
I knew that this pregnancy would have some bumps in the road. I had a very easy
first trimester so far up until I was 11 weeks. I started have contractions and
my cervix began shortening. When I was 13 weeks they decided that it was best
put in a cerclage due to the incompetent cervix. The night before the procedure
I began having really intense contractions and was unable to sleep. The next
day the doctor put a monitor on me to check my contractions, the monitor picked
up a few and the doctors decided to wait on putting the cerclage in. They
started me on progesterone and said they would reschedule the procedure in a
few weeks, by then they were hoping that I would not need the procedure and
that my cervix would be longer. They told me that I would need to be on
moderate bedrest but it would be okay for me to work one or two days a week,
just not any heavy lifting. The scheduled me to come in twice a week to check
my cervix.
After a few weeks of everything
staying the same, I returned to work after getting news that my cervix was 3.5.
The next day I was working as a cashier when I felt pain in my lower abdomen. I
went to the restroom and found out I was spotting. It was 6pm and my doctor’s
office was closed, but I had an appointment for the following day so I decided
to go home and rest. The next day I went to the doctors and they checked my
cervix and it was 1.3 and they decided to do an emergency cerclage because they
were not sure how much longer my cervix would be able to hold up without me
going into preterm labor. The procedure went really smoothly and I went home
after 2 days in the hospital. They told me that I would need to me on bedrest
for a few weeks but after that I should be able to return to work but take it
easy went.
After two weeks of bedrest, I returned to the
doctor to check my cerclage. After doing the vaginal u/s the tech said she
wanted to check the fluid around the baby to make sure I was not leaking any
fluid and I told her I would not have noticed because of the suppositories I
was taking. Well, she checked my fluid and noticed that there was fluid in the
baby's abdomen. She went and got the doctor and when they came back they told
me what was going on. There is a lot of fluid in the baby's abdomen which had
them really worried. They thought I had Parvovirus B19. There was just so much
information to take in. The doctor said he had seen two cases this year; one
the woman waited on treatment and lost the baby and the other woman had the treatment and it
looks like she and the baby will be fine. So the scheduled me an appointment
for a more intensive ultrasound the following day.
The next day they did the
ultrasound and ruled out Parvovirus B19 but determined that my son had PUV
(Posterior Urethral Valves). PUV is a congenital
birth defect that happens only in boys. It is when there are excess flaps of
tissue in the urethra (tube from the bladder to the outside of the body) are
blocked not allowing the urine to flow and affects all parts of the urinary
tract, as well as leaving very little to no amniotic fluid for lung
development. It can also cause renal and lung failure. It occurs in 1 out 4,000
live births but that 8,000 are diagnosed with it. It is thought to develop in
the early stages of fetal development.
The doctor said my son had a
blockage in his urethra which has caused a rupture and there was urine in his
abdomen. He said his kidneys and bladder are enlarged at the moment and are
causing stress on my son. The doctor said there is a 10% chance that when he is
born that he will not live for long and
there is a 10% chance that when he is born that he will have either lung
failure or kidney failure or both. He said once he is born he will have to have
surgery to fix the rupture as well as remove the blockage. He will have to have
numerous surgeries to fix everything as well as he might have to be on
dialysis. When he told me that only half
of the babies that are diagnosed with this live, my heart dropped. I was at a
loss of words, here I was sitting by myself, taking in this information and I
just felt like I had lost my world. The doctor then told me that I could
terminate. He informed that California
After posting on Babycenter,
looking for help, I had found some support. A friend reached out to me and told
me that her friend’s baby was diagnosed with the same condition and we were
actually due on the same day. I got in contact with her and she truly helped my
decision. She told me questions to ask the doctor and procedures that could be
done in utero. The next day I went back to the doctor and told them
I would be keeping the baby and to do whatever needed to be done to save my
sons life. That day I had bladder taps done to see if his kidneys were working
and what would be the next step. I had also decided to move home with my mom
and a a specialist that had dealt with the condition before. I had two bladder
taps before I moved and they determined that his kidneys were working. I was
super excited. I moved that weekend and saw the specialist that Monday. When I
got there he told me he had received my file was glad that I had the bladder
taps done and that his kidneys were working. The doctor scheduled for me to
come in every two weeks to check my fluid level and to check on the baby.
At my scheduled appointment they
were checking my fluid and noticed that I had no fluid, they immediately sent
me to the hospital and scheduled a shunt procedure as well as amniotic
infusions, I was 24 weeks. The procedure went well and my amniotic fluid went
up to 10. I was super excited and was able to go home one week later, but I was to be on strict bedrest. Could only
get out of bed to use the bathroom and shower. Two weeks later I returned for
me scheduled appointment and they noticed that they shunt had slipped in and
that it was no longer draining the bladder. The scheduled me for another shunt
and amniotic infusion procedure. This time they kept me in the hospital for a
week to make sure everything looked ok, I was 28 weeks. I went home and once
again was on strict bedrest. I called my doctor and informed him that my mom
went out of town for work, he told me it would be okay for me to get up and fix
my meals but that was it, a maximum of 1 hour a day out of bed. My mom got back
from her work trip one week later. I was excited that she was home because I
would have some help around the house. I
was excited that I had made it to 29 weeks.
That following morning at 5 am my
water broke. I was scared. I got out of bed and went downstairs to my moms’
room, thankfully she was awake. I told her my water broke and we went to the
hospital. At 5:30 we got to the hospital and they determined that, in fact, my
water had broken, they checked my amniotic fluid level and I had none so they
decided to keep me in the hospital until I delivered. I started having
contractions so they gave me magnesium sulfate to try and stop them. The
contractions subsided and they started me on antibiotics to ensure that I
didn’t get an infection. They told me that since my water had broken that the
next time I had contractions they would just let them happen, they wanted to
keep the baby in for as long as possible but they also wanted to make sure that
he didn’t develop an infection. Every night I would touch my belly and say
“Stay cooking Riley, momma needs you to stay in there.” And he listened for a
while.
On the morning on July 21, 2011, I
woke up at 4am to contractions but kept telling myself they were just Braxton
hicks and that everything would be okay. I called the nurse and said I needed
to pee and also to get the doctor. After peeing the contractions got more
intense, I asked the nurse for some something to take. The doctor came in about
4:45am and said she would check me. While she was talking to me and waiting on
the nurses to bring in the things she needed to check me I started crying. She
asked me if the contractions were closer together, I explained that I was in
pain and that I thought they were Braxton hicks. She checked me and told me
that I was 5cm dilated. I grabbed my phone and called my mom and told her she
needed to get the hospital because the baby was coming. By 5:00 am my mom had
arrived and I was 10cm dilated. Riley was born at 5:35am. I didn’t hear a cry
when he came out and my heart sank. The doctors started working on him right
away. They had him hooked up to all these machines so quickly that I thought I
wouldn’t get a chance to hold him, but I did. They let me hold him for a few
moments. Then they quickly took him to the NICU. He looked like a butterball
turkey. He weighed 4lbs 7oz and was 16 inches long. When I saw him again a few
hours later they told me that it was all retained fluid and in a few days he
will be even smaller and not to be sad when I see the changes. He spent the
first few weeks on the ventilator. He had three surgeries to correct his
condition while in the NICU. He spent 75 days in the NICU. He will be six
months on the 21st and is just the happiest & cutest baby I
could have ever imagined. He is definitely my miracle boy and continues to
amaze me every day.
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